As the old
man walked by, I noticed the wrinkles on his face and the milky colour of his eyes
straining to look at the pathway ahead. He gave me a tired smile which could
have been to reaffirm the acquaintance or to confirm that he could see me
properly. The steps were getting unsteady sometimes like the trot of a toddler
who is learning to walk but somehow the body was balancing itself.
I had known
Unniuncle from the time I started remembering people and specially Unniuncle I
knew very well as he was a man who would
always help others out of the way be it getting a new water connection or a new
gas connection. He had all the contacts and resources as he used to work in the
Public Works Department and knew all people who mattered.
When we used
to have water logging in the colony we stay, he took great initiative to ensure
that the drainages were done and the problem was sorted out. A man of great
resources and presentation skills we used to look up at him with awe and
respect.
Never would
he say “No” to anyone, it seemed as if this word was not there in his lexicon
and he used to be always positive “Everything will be fine” and “You leave it
to me, I will sort it out”.
Unniuncle! I
called out as he turned around slowly his tired smile as broad as it always used
to be from ear to ear. He asked me about my work, family, children and all that
one normally talks about. I decided to walk down with him upto his house and
made him comfortable in his reclining chair took up a chair and sat next to
him.
As I
recounted the good old days when we as kids used to see Unniuncle do all the
great things for our colony and for others who used to queue at his place
morning and evening. There were no queues today, no people asking for favours.
The old man was all alone sitting in the reclining chair almost half asleep as
I heard the nurse coming out and screaming at him to come and take bath and
have his breakfast.The elderly nurse was Unniuncle’s lone companion from
morning to evening taking care of the old man’s needs of food, medicines and
cleanliness while his children were busy making money elsewhere.
Feelings are like waves which keep wetting the
sands on the banks of the sea as much as the tears which moist the eyes when
emotions surge and that is what I saw in the eyes of this old helpless man. His
speechless stare seemed to be telling me volumes which many a speeches would
not reveal.
I had seen
for myself how he would put his kids on the scooter and leave them in school in
the morning and be back early in the evening to ensure that they do their
homework. Even when Nandan (the eldest son) was doing his engineering Unniuncle
would take pains to ensure that he takes all that he needs for his college
work. Incidentally Aunty would not bother too much as she being a teacher knew
that children would gear up to their tasks when they are left alone to handle
their problems but Unniuncle would not listen.
With Aunty’s
demise Unniuncle found himself all alone and with his children scattered all
over the globe there was no alternative but to find a person who could take
care of his basic needs and that is what the children did.
I stayed with
him for an hour remembering the good old days and recounting the good moments
which we shared together as nieghbours and then it was time to take leave.
He gave me
his blessings and wished me well for a bright future. I only wished I could do
so in return. I told him with a stutter “Uncle please do take care of your
health” and I meant it as that would at least ensure least dependence on
anyone.
As I left
the house I wondered what would be our state after another fifteen to twenty
years – Well “GOK” is the answer “God Only Knows”